I’m not ready. Then again, I am never ready right before the Holidays. I always do things in big bunches as we get closer. Most of the time it works, but it does make for a very stressful couple weeks before the High Holy Days. The muse of writing strikes when it wants. Unfortunately, it doesn’t always hit me when I have to get some sermonizing done. But you need to be in the right moment to be ready.
Look at When Harry Met Sally. Although both Harry and Sally were searching for relationships of different sorts and kept running into each other at moments they were available, it wasn’t until that New Year’s Eve at the end of the film that presented the moment. It was only then Harry found the courage, the words, the emotion, the recognition that they were to perfect to be together.
Or as Harry says, “I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”
The moment has to strike and then we are ready.